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"And be kind to one another, tender-hearted, forgiving each other, just as God in Christ also has forgiven you. [Ephesians 4:32] I am 25 and engaged. I love every minute of my life with her, something most cannot feel and a love that sustains me! I am in Tennessee for a while and miss Chicago a lot. People are a large part of my life and I find the interesting. I want to be a politician and professor. We will see what happens first:) I am Irish and Polish and a devout Catholic.

Monday, January 11, 2010

Responsibility

But if we confess our sins to him, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all wickedness.
1 John 1:9

All politics aside, I was pleased to hear our President take responsibility for the airplane incident...To be honest, I have been too wrapped up in my current weight loss efforts to pay much attention. I do not fly American, but rather Southwest...Anyone who has been on Southwest knows a terrorist will not be on the congested plane.

Anyway...Do I think that the President is responsible for the incident? No, but I see where folks would argue contrary. I was simply relieved to see someone claim responsibility as opposed to offering excuses. In our society, NOBODY seems to be responsible for anything that is less than outstanding. It is almost as to say "I did not know, I was not aware, I did not bother to wonder why, etc...". As a teacher, I have heard almost every excuse from every person for every short coming. I too am guilty for excusing behavior and mannerisms that are less than ideal. Maybe we are programmed to achieve greatness and anything less is simply not our fault, regardless of the role we play in it? This brings up a question: why do we make excuses ?

We (I) make excuses because it is easier than apologizing. We (I) make excuses because we (I) are not comfortable admitting a shortcoming. Do not get me wrong, I sympathize with people, myself especially, who make excuses and are attempting to stop. However, I have started to look at it like this "WHO CARES?!?". If we make a mistake, own up to it. If someone is offended, and we are sorry, then too bad for them. Why do we not apologize? Obviously, if we are making excuses (which usually require more effort than apologizing), then we have some ownership in the issue that is at hand and, therefore, need to accept our share of the responsibility. Maybe our pride prevents us from acknowledging a mistake. I look at like this, and this development is recent, that a mistake is simply a path that did not work out for me.

From a Christian perspective, all that matters is His opinion. We can make excuses for people, but He sees all and knows all. So, accept our responsibility and move on. Responsibility empowers you! In our society, we need less excuses and more change, more ability, more people to say this is wrong, I am sorry, let us make it better...

In the words of Johnny Cash
"Well you may throw your rock and hide your hand
Workin' in the dark against your fellow man
But as sure as God made black and white
What's down in the dark will be brought to the light"

Thats all for now.......Paz y amor a todo....

3 comments:

  1. Accepting responsibility is such a grown up thing to do...

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  2. Loving that you are blogging now. Intellectual, thought-provoking, and well-written said the MuseGirl times!!!Keep it up.

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  3. Whoever is unjust, let him be unjust still. Whoever is righteous, let him be righteous still. Whoever is filthy, let him be filthy still. Listen to the words long written down, When the man comes around. ~ Johnny Cash

    If you don't except responsibility now, you surely will someday. Why not get it over with now while people can still accept it.

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